Kalokand – A delicious dessert made with paneer

One of the reasons that I don’t usually make Bengali or Indian desserts very often is that they take a lot of time standing in front of a stove. It’s not like baking something where you pop it in the oven and then go away for a while. South Asian desserts require your attention for the full prep time. There is no “down” time.  On my recent quest to make Paneer at home, I made several batches of paneer with varying degrees of success.  The batch I made with whole milk and heavy cream mixture (4 cups whole milk and 4 cups heavy cream) was soft and had a smooth and creamy texture.  It failed as a paneer for savory cooking but was the perfect consistency for making a dessert that I’d enjoyed eating but have never made myself–Kalokand.  It’s a delicious, creamy and rich dessert that has no other flavor but the richness of milk. It’s one of those desserts better saved for those special occasions.

I’m not sure I’d have ever tried making Kalokand had I not had the great paneer making experiment.  I’m so glad that I did. I’m posting this so that my mom can see the pictures (if my sister will actually show her this post) and tell me what she thinks.  I want to make sure I did it right.  It sure tasted amazing and like I remembered it tasting.  It’s not as intimidating as I thought and it’s worth making on purpose.

Batch of Paneer made with whole milk and cream
Add paneer to reduced milk and cook for about 4-5 minutes before adding Pistachios
Add the brown sugar and continue cooking
When mixture resembles a soft dough take off heat
Pour into a greased plate or serving dish and garnish with pistachios
Cut into small squares when cooled

Here’s the recipe:


One batch of Paneer made with 4 cups whole milk and 4 cups of heavy cream

4 cups of 2% or whole milk

1/2 cup dark brown sugar

1/4 cup chopped Pistachios

1 tablespoon chopped Pistachio for garnish

Make a batch of paneer using whole milk and heavy cream, don’t knead it.  In a heavy bottom pan heat 4 cups of milk and bring it to a gentle boil.  Stir often so it doesn’t burn.  Reduce the milk volume in half to about 2 cups (takes about 12 minutes).  Add the paneer into the reduced milk and continue cooking  until  the mixture begins to pull away from the sides of the pan (about 4-5 minutes).  Add the pistachios and the dark brown sugar and cook another 3-4 minutes until mixture begins to dry out some more and resembles a soft dough.  Pour into a greased  plate or small pan so that mixture is about 1/2 inch thick.  Smooth out the top and sprinkle the remaining Pistachios.  When cooled, cut into small squares.  Keep in an airtight container in the fridge for up to 2 weeks.

Gulab Jamun – the best little desserts

You will not see a lot of baked foods coming out of a traditional South Asian kitchen.  That’s because most things are cooked over an open fire or stove top.  With the exception of the Tandoor Oven, which is used for some savory dishes and naans, an oven is not used for desserts.  Bengalis are intrepid however,  and we are known for our desserts.  There are a lot of Bengali desserts made out of dairy products and some that are non-dairy, like Jilebi and a whole host of Pithas and Halwas.  The traditional Gulab Jamun is made with a homemade ricotta cheese base which takes a bit of effort and time to make.

My mom, (like most Bengali, I call her Ma) is a champion dessert maker.  In fact, if there is a special occasion or a wedding coming up, people like to call her up and ask her to make some of the more complicated desserts.  She is a true professional.  I like to take a few short cuts in the kitchen.  Some of the traditional methods of making desserts take forever.  My philosophy is that if the end product tastes just as good with a little shortcut, let’s take the short cut!  I have to confess, I had a LOT of failures before I could make this properly.  The first time I made this, I made the balls the size that I usually ate them as a finished product, I had no idea that they expanded about 1 1/2 times their size.  I ended up with these HUGE tennis ball sized desserts that fell apart in the syrup.  I tried various concoctions and methods with varying degrees of success and finally settled on this recipe. This Gulab Jamun passed the Ma test.  She said that it tasted (almost) as good as hers.  High praise indeed!

Mix together dry ingredients, work in softened butter and then add the milk to make dough
Dough will be very sticky, let it rest for about 10-15 minutes until everything absorbs
While waiting for the dough to set up, get the syrup ready to boil
Pre-heat oil and make little balls out of the dough. Should be the size of a nickle (yields about 30)
SLOWLY fry the dough to an even deep brown color (it's a little like watching paint dry but necessary). Balls will expand as they are being fried.
Place on paper towel covered surface to absorb excess oil
Place into syrup while still warm, as they absorb the syrup they will expand some more
Gulab Jamun has to soak in syrup at least an hour before they are ready to eat. They are even better the next day.

Here’s the recipe:

Gulab Jamun

1 cup dry powdered non-fat milk

1/4 cup all purpose flour (Maida)

1/8 tsp baking soda

1/4 cup milk (2% or whole)

3 tbsp butter, softened to room temperature

Oil for frying


2 cups sugar

2 1/2 cups water

3-4 cardamom pods crushed

saffron strands (optional, it adds great color and some flavor)

2 tsp lemon juice (to prevent crysallization)

In a large heavy bottom pan mix together all the ingredients for the syrup and bring to a boil. As soon as the mixture boils, turn down heat to low and simmer for about 8 minutes and turn off the heat.
In a bowl, mix together powdered milk, flour, baking soda until well incorporated. Add softened butter and mix with hands and slowly begin adding liquid milk until a soft and sticky dough forms. Pat it together and let it rest for about 10-15 minutes until all liquid absorbs and dough becomes easier to handle. Knead dough until smooth and form small balls about the size of a nickel. Recipe should yield about 30 balls. In medium/low heat slowly fry the balls until they are a golden brown. It’s important to go slowly so that the balls are not hard in the middle and cooked on the outside. This is the most important step.  The balls will expand in size as they are being fried.  Keep turning the balls in the oil so they get an even golden brown color. When they are a deep brown color, take them out with a slotted spatula and place them on a paper towel covered surface to absorb excess oil. While they are still warm, place the balls gently into the syrup. Dessert is ready after 1 hour of being in syrup. They taste even better the next day. The finished size is about the size of a golf ball.